David Deida in The Way of The Superior Man states from the beginning of his book that a man needs to find his purpose if he is going to be trustworthy. He goes on to explain that ‘If we are willing to discover and embrace our...
So recently I had the privilege of being asked to provide insight (via a masterclass) into my perfect system for creating my track record of failure, unfulfillment and dysfunction. Frankly I thought you’d never ask; ‘how do I do it?’ - but seeing as you...
I think about the statement in the beginning of Lord of the Rings; ‘and once again the race of men failed’ and I’m struck by this almost taken for granted theme that men will be unreliable. The bible has a verse that says, ‘woe to...
As we continue to explore the question of ‘Who am I?’ The question I must ask is; ‘how much work are we prepared to do to get to the bottom of our identity?’ I remember reading in Robert Bly’s book Iron John which is a...
The ‘Who am I?’ question goes deeper than you think. In our present climate, people are doing a number of different things to try to get to the bottom of their identity, from DNA tests, to surname research and in the process re-evaluating and excavating...
We are still asking the question of ‘Who am I?’, Because without this foundation how will we even know if our authentic ‘self’ is joining us on the journey, or if down the road we’ll have to begin the game of self-discovery because we neglected...
'Who are you?' – Is a loaded question. We are made up of many parts and identity comes from a number of different sources. However, I am going to posit that your identity transcends all external parameters. Things like age, race, class, shoe size or even...
The importance of asking the question; ‘Who Am I?’, and actually maintaining it as an ongoing inquiry was brought home to me when I recently interviewed my Coach and Therapist Ed Rooke for The Idea of a Man™ Podcast show. I was surprised when Ed...
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In quo meis probatus perpetua. Has epicuri percipit comprehensam et. Ad iusto ludus has, omnium copiosae pertinax nec ut. Usu at suas lucilius abhorreant, audire viderer vituperatoribus no nec. Nam ullum commodo ne. Sed suas legere ad, nominati salutatus molestiae at eum, nostrum oportere sententiae...
